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On Saturdays before Dr Who, BBC1 airs a ghastly show called Strictly Dance Fever with gaudily-clad couples flinging themselves about way too energetically, and I always seem to get caught with the last couple of minutes of this whether I want to or not (except for last weekend when it was football, which was much better to my mind, but I digress...).

The show this week finished with candid video footage of the various over-energetic types being interviewed and one thing stood out for me - none of them ever said 'if I lose' or anything of that sort. It was all 'if this gets taken away from me', as if losing something because a vote went against you was some kind of personal affront and so they were determined to play on how upset they'd be to reduce the chances of people being mean to them (or that it would be some kind of personal conspiracy against them and this would be Bad and Mean as well). Of course, the way this show is pitched seems to be all about 'your favourite couple' rather than 'the best dancers' and I guess I struggle with that whole way of doing things.

I don't watch Pop Idol or any of the thousand rip-offs it's seemed to spawn so I was wondering whether this outlook is common? Is it that unacceptable now to have the level of insight that allows you to say 'well, I was good but they were better, so they deserved to win more than I did?' or is it just that the voting is so arbitrary it makes a nonsense of how good you are because if enough people like you then you'll win anyway?

E.T.A. [livejournal.com profile] sg1scribe reminds me that many of the self-same 'please don't take this away from me!' teenagers (and some non-teenagers) were struggling to find a reason to go on living if they didn't win. Jeez.

Date: 2006-05-01 06:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] betacandy.livejournal.com
I don't watch that show, or any others like it, but I've observed in the past few years that no one ever loses anymore. They get "robbed" somehow. One person wins, and everyone else is a victim. Riiiiight.

Date: 2006-05-01 09:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] graculus.livejournal.com
Fair enough, nobody likes to feel that they've lost out unfairly, but if the others are better than you and you lose? Suck it up!

Then again, saying that my older brother always used to be a poor loser (of the 'throwing the boardgame across the room' variety), so perhaps my tolerance level for that kind of thing isn't too high... ;)

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