Predictable behaviour
Jan. 8th, 2005 11:57 amIf there's one thing about my mother, it's that she's predictable. I don't mean this in a bad way, because heaven knows she could be annoying in so many much more vexing ways than these few minor peccadilloes she's picked up along the way - she never pesters me, for example, about producing grandchildren or those other domestic milestones that many people her age (she's going to be 78 in a couple of weeks) find so important, and she takes my odd hobbies very much in her stride.
However, you can be guaranteed that at some point in any reasonably lengthy conversation, my mother will ask me if I'm alright for money. She actually managed to last about 4 hours this time, which is good going for her, before asking me if I needed any cash. My mind blanked at this, since I'm not exactly struggling (13 years of gainful employment, my own house and car, yadda yadda) and obviously this wasn't what she was expecting: "Do you have any debts?" she said.
I'm not sure I completely convinced her that I wasn't a mouthful of bread away from the poor house, but I have to wonder whether she does this to my brother (who's 10 years older than me) as well or whether it's just because I'm 'the baby'.
The other thing that's consistent with my mother is that she's both extremely good at getting people's life stories out of them within minutes of meeting them, but that she's also pretty verbose herself. We went out for lunch and I ended up in a bookshop (no surprises there), leaving my mother loitering elsewhere. Within about 10 minutes, she was downstairs in the bookshop, talking with the owners like she'd known them all her life and I had to get down there before she told them every detail of my life story as well.
Still, that visit means my filial duties are done for a while, so it's a small price to pay... ;)
However, you can be guaranteed that at some point in any reasonably lengthy conversation, my mother will ask me if I'm alright for money. She actually managed to last about 4 hours this time, which is good going for her, before asking me if I needed any cash. My mind blanked at this, since I'm not exactly struggling (13 years of gainful employment, my own house and car, yadda yadda) and obviously this wasn't what she was expecting: "Do you have any debts?" she said.
I'm not sure I completely convinced her that I wasn't a mouthful of bread away from the poor house, but I have to wonder whether she does this to my brother (who's 10 years older than me) as well or whether it's just because I'm 'the baby'.
The other thing that's consistent with my mother is that she's both extremely good at getting people's life stories out of them within minutes of meeting them, but that she's also pretty verbose herself. We went out for lunch and I ended up in a bookshop (no surprises there), leaving my mother loitering elsewhere. Within about 10 minutes, she was downstairs in the bookshop, talking with the owners like she'd known them all her life and I had to get down there before she told them every detail of my life story as well.
Still, that visit means my filial duties are done for a while, so it's a small price to pay... ;)